A very happy new year everyone.......... #2023

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May you be blessed in all you do ......Cheers to a year of uncommon blessings, happiness, good health and abundance Amen.

I am thankful Lord........“True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future.

Thankfulness is simply being appreciative of something or someone, which comes from the Latin word gratis. We can also describe it as a positive emotion or feeling arising when we receive a blessing or a gift. In many cases, it develops spontaneously, but it can also be tuned into.

The most effective way to understand gratitude is to understand what it is not. Cultivating gratitude does not mean that we should deny hardship or difficult emotions, nor should we try to force it on ourselves. Gratitude can be a state of being that allows us to open up to being attuned to the positive aspects of our present moment.

Why gratitude is so powerful is subject to many different explanations and theories.  The first benefit is that it helps us disentangle ourselves from negative thinking patterns. The more positive emotions we cultivate, the more room we have to flourish.

We can experience more beauty in life when we cultivate gratitude, which is an exceptional skill to hone. There is a multitude of interpretations we can apply to every situation in which we find ourselves. When we try to find the positive in life, we experience deeper contentment. As well as affecting our own well-being, it also impacts our interactions with others, so it is essential both for ourselves and for the greater good of others.

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Being grateful isn't complicated or difficult. A special tool or training is not required. Practising gratitude will improve your ability to put yourself in a grateful frame of mind. To do this, follow these steps:

• Pay attention to what you are experiencing and how you are feeling as you are experiencing it. Take note of your surroundings and consider what helps you cope. How do you manage stress, feel confident about your life, or accomplish what you need to do? What have people done for you? Practising mindfulness can also help you become more aware of the present moment.

• Try writing down some of the things you are grateful for every day in your gratitude journal. Taking time to reflect on these observations helps when you find it challenging to be grateful.

• Embrace the moment: Spend time enjoying what is happening right now. Keep your focus on the positive feelings you experienced and allow them to sink in.

• Feeling grateful can be enhanced by creating rituals of appreciation and gratitude. By practising meditation, prayer, or mantra, you can develop a greater sense of gratitude.

• Thank you: Being grateful involves recognizing and expressing gratitude for the people, things, moments, skills, and gifts that have brought us joy, peace, and comfort. Appreciate what you have. Whether you are simply appreciative of what you have or you thank someone to show your gratitude, you might take a moment to express your gratitude to them.

Defining Your Personal Style in the new year.

Examine your closet. Take a moment to think about the clothes you own that make you happy. How would you describe the items in your closet that you love the most? A person's style evolves and changes according to various lifestyle factors. The key thing is to decide who you want to present to the world, regardless of your age. Finding your colours, defining your body shape, and understanding your body type, the next step is finding your style. 

Find inspiration for your wardrobe. pay attention to how fashion influencers and celebrities dress, from jeans and leggings to blazers and dresses. Getting fashion tips and inspiration from fashion blogs is easy, so look for a couple of fashion bloggers whose style interests you and peruse their archives. For inspiration, find out who a celebrity's stylist is, or how you can emulate that celebrity's style. It's also a wise idea to check out fashion magazines. Understand the different types and identify your favourites.

Fashion mood boards are a helpful way to get inspired. A mood board is a helpful tool for developing your style. Create a mood board based on your fashion inspiration. While you might find that a lot of your models are wearing denim jeans, maxi dresses, or tops with ruffles, there is still an overarching vibe or mood that you want to achieve. Keep these images on your phone so you can check them out when you're shopping.

Invest in a capsule wardrobe. A capsule wardrobe is a collection of essentials that can be mixed and matched for various looks. These classic pieces in neutral colours go with everything: an elegant black dress, a denim jacket, a T-shirt, and a leather tote. Several of these might already be in your closet. Don't replace all of your basics with ones that don't work for you, but keep the ones that make you feel confident.

Give your style a unique twist. Having built your capsule collection, it's time to add pieces to your wardrobe that demonstrate your style and personality. Be prepared to experiment, and remember that it's fine if you change your mind. Creating a personal style means playing with fashion to find out which clothes make you feel the happiest. Start by mixing prints and textures and adding bold accessories.

Because is a throw back Thursday, Let's drop this here.

 

At home pampering: pampering yourself can improve your overall health in significant ways.

Pampering yourself is not only a terrific way to recharge and revitalize, but it's also a necessary element of remaining physically and mentally fit. below are my recipe for making at-home pampering very easy. indulge yourself ...you deserve it.

HONEY

Honey has a number of health benefits for the face. Raw honey is high in components that are good for your skin, especially if you suffer from acne or autoimmune skin disorders like eczema or psoriasis. Applying honey to your skin can even help you control Candida overgrowth.

EGG YOLK

Egg yolks are also desired because they can help with skin issues like as acne; especially, the retinol content controls oil production in the face, which can clog pores and lead to pimples. Egg yolks can assist to cleanse the skin and prevent acne by removing excess oil.

COFFE

According to Beverly Hills MD Cosmeceuticals, coffee can also help with chronic dark circles beneath the eyes. This is because coffee's caffeine is known to help dilate blood vessels, which can cause dark circles.

TUMERIC

Turmeric offers a variety of skin advantages and is found in a variety of beauty products, including It has anti-inflammatory effects that help to reduce inflammation, discoloration, and blemishes on the skin. It contains antimicrobial characteristics that aid in acne reduction, particularly when combined with other organic products.

Mix ingredients to make a firm paste that will stick to your face. Apply the mask evenly all over your face and under the eyes, Let the mask dry on your face. This means leaving it on for about 20 minutes and then washing it off with cool water. Dry your face gently with a cloth and apply your face moisturizer. 

BEAUTY NOTE : Haute couture fashion week saw different makeup trends emerge

Classic red lipstick has become one of the trendiest lipstick shades of 2022 spring/summer.

Different makeup trends were seen at Haute Couture fashion week

The graphic black liner looks set to be a big trend this spring/summer, from double-wing lines at Chanel to triple wing lines at Giambattista Valli. 

Holographic pastel eyes and lips were seen on the runways of Anna Sui, KNWLS, and Tom Ford. Fresh, delicate shades were used with wet-look finishes.

The most popular lipstick shade in 2022 will be red lipstick, spring and summer will be red lipstick seasons. Using this tone will make you stand out, look bright and sexy. If possible, select lipsticks that have a glossy finish. I hope you enjoyed this article.

                                                    xoxo

                                                 Ifeoma

Plus size and fabulous: Embrace your beautiful curves with pride and accentuate them.

Plus size body comes in different sizes and shapes. one major thing we have to understand is that all the different shapes and sizes are beautiful and unique in their way. Wearing clothes that make you look fab and stylish might take a bit of courage, however,  over the years I have learned how to style my plus-size body and appreciate the uniqueness of being plus-size. being plus size does not mean you do not have to look stylish. learning the trick to style your body type might be a little bit of help.

My number one rule is don't hide the curves, wear clothes that flatter to create a waistline, use accessories like a statement belt, brooches, or a scarf to create a waistline. If you have a natural waist, draw attention to it. If you don't have much of a waist, it is nothing to worry about, use accessories like a statement belt to cinch in the waist, wear a dress or skirt to show off some leg.

When it comes to styling, high-waisted pants and skirts can be flattering. It allows you to regain control of your waistline while also providing a slight lift. High-waisted jeans are also a winner.

As a plus-size woman, I prefer black attire because it makes me appear slimmer. However, it's critical to add color to our style. Wearing colors that are in tune with your inner vibration can make you feel more energetic, and certain colors can even make you sparkle all day. So let's put the dark colors clothing aside and add some color to our style. Before I felt comfortable wearing colors, I experimented with adding a pop of color, little at a time to my outfit/style to see how it went. hope this helps

with love from

ifeoma

xoxo

Lemon-Pineapple Punch is a good idea. #photooftheday

#Food: Checkout my spicy beef coconut rice recipe .....so yummy....wink wink

Ingredients 

Long-grain  rice

Salt and Maggi to taste

Galic

Green peas

Grated carrots

Beef 

3 tablespoons of butter

Coconut milk

Onion

Fish powder 

Fresh hot pepper

Hot curry powder

Checkout my recipe for my easy made king prawn sauce..

The Sauce

•  Tomatoes
•  Red Bell Peppers 
• Large Onion
• Scotch Bonnet peppers
• King-prawn
• Fresh tilapia Fish
• sunflower oil
• Hot curry powder 
• salt and maggi to taste

Style note: From the editor's desk. ..you don't need to over spend to look stylish, learning the tricks in styling is all you need. ifeoma

“Elegance is a glowing inner peace. Grace is an ability to give as well as to receive and be thankful. Mystery is a hidden laugh always ready to surface! Glamour only radiates if there is a sublime courage & bravery within: glamour is like the moon; it only shines because the sun is there.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“Never use the word “cheap”. Today everybody can look chic in inexpensive clothes (the rich buy them too). There is good clothing design on every level today. You can be the chicest thing in the world in a T-shirt and jeans — it’s up to you.”
― Karl Lagerfeld

“Create your own style… let it be unique for yourself and yet identifiable for others.”
― Anna Wintour

FABULOUS INTERIOR DECOR IDEAS FOR INSTANT GLAMOUR.

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The first step toward making our space look good can be to get rid of junk. More than we might think, the appearance of our home affects our life in many ways. It impacts our happiness, our self-confidence, and our mental health. Decorating can be stressful and costly, which is why some people do not do it.

 Making small changes to the colours and layout of our décor can bring positive feelings to our space.

A bare wall might evoke feelings of loneliness, while a mirror on our wall can give the room a sense of spaciousness. If we have too many decorations, our home can appear cluttered, and this can be anxiety-inducing. When we decide to redecorate our home and start choosing home décor items, we will find that we might need to get rid of quite a bit of unnecessary junk, not just to make room but also to help our home look and feel more beautiful. Adding colour to our home will add excitement and promote a positive atmosphere. below are tips you might like. Many thanks for reading my blog

                                   with love from

                                   ifoma 

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How i make my chocolate cake .... Check back for my recipe

it was a lazy Friday and so we baked to make it kinda fun.

Why having good sleep is important for health.

Lack of sleep can have numerous effects, such as feeling grumpy and not working at your best. You may not know it, but lack of sleep has a profound impact on your physical health as well? Poor sleep might affect us, with stress, computers, and taking work home  often to blame.

Sleepless nights come at a price, however, that goes beyond poor moods and a lack of focus. The lack of sleep you experience regularly puts you at risk for serious medical conditions, including obesity, coronary heart disease, and diabetes. In order to live a long and healthy life, it is essential to get a good night's sleep.

The bedroom setting is crucial to getting a good night's sleep. As part of sleep hygiene, establishing an environment conducive to falling asleep and staying asleep is important, which can ensure quality rest night after night. Visual design and practical setup, including lighting, sound, and smell, are all essential in creating a relaxing atmosphere for sleep. Your ideal sleep space can be cultivated if you take into consideration these elements.

Getting proper support and comfort from your mattress will keep your spine in alignment and prevent pressure points from getting aggravated. this might prevent waking up with a cracking sound in your neck the following day. 

For your body to feel comfortable, the perfect mattress should provide enough cushion and softness. Several factors can affect sleep quality, including weight, sleeping style, and position.

Thanks for reading my blog 

with love from

Ifeoma

xoxo

My thought of the day: “Gratitude will shift you to a higher frequency, and you will attract much better things.” – Rhonda Byrne

Style Note : “Dressing for success is not only wearing something well but making sure it is appropriate for the environment.

“Do you feel at ease in your own skin, smart, confident, or powerful in your clothes?” our outfit reflects our personality and demonstrates our professionalism in both career and life. A further explanation why dressing appropriately for work is crucial is that you want to be seen as a professional than someone who just dresses in sportswear. As a result, it's critical that you dress appropriately for the event. When someone does not take pride in their looks, it is difficult to take them seriously.

Colors have a significant influence on our daily lives. They have an effect on how we think, how we make decisions, and how we feel. Colors have more force than we realize, from generating changes to affecting reactions. They can be utilized as both goods or bad, according to our beliefs. However, we all have the  capacity to accept some hues while rejecting others.“One of the most significant and distinguishing aspects of boosting your image is color. Wearing colors that complement your demeanor, attitude, skin color, hair color, and body shape will make you look younger, more lively, and friendly.”

“The very first thing others observe about you is your true self, not your credentials, background, or accomplishments. An image is worth a thousand words, and the way you show yourself is the “picture” you present to the rest of the world.”

It's not all about wearing designer labels or wearing clothes that express your individuality; it's about feeling confident about yourself and wearing the clothes that express your personal style."Fashion is not necessarily about labels. It's not about brands. It's about something else that comes from within you." -- Ralph Lauren

Thanks for reading 

with love

from Ifeoma

XOXO

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Fabulous Hold up.....Effortless style is all about looking like you put in no effort..

wear clothes that you feel are perfect for your body type. Good accent colors are as follows .. some shades of red, many shades of blue, plum/eggplant purple, golden yellow and emerald green. all these are fab colors that you might want to go for

Invest in timeless wardrobe piece that you can flaunt season after season.Wardrobe Essentials’ are timeless pieces that you can mix and matched  as to get that perfect look

An effective career development plan enables you to achieve your goals.

Putting together a career development plan is one of the most important things you can do to excel in life and advance in your chosen field. Your career should be led in a clear direction that you are comfortable with. The career planning process is an essential step for your success and not something you should skip.

An effective career development plan enables you to achieve your goals. We all have certain goals in life, as well as specific levels we would like to attain. As a part of the career planning process, you develop specific career goals and figure out how to accomplish them. Identify your priorities if you want to accomplish that. Depending on your level of knowledge, you may or may not be sure what you are searching for in your career - a career coach will ask powerful questions that will reveal what you are seeking. An extensive career assessment will help you identify your key strengths and determine how they link to your career goals. Following the identification of your strengths, you can determine your next steps. Goals are the first step in determining the next steps.

Defining your purpose and passions as part of identifying your career path is important. But why? Most people have a dream of finding a career they like and enjoy, but they stumble along the way. Their different career aspirations simply result from reacting rather than planning. Even when they know a job is not what they are looking for, they apply for the position and take it. You can avoid career mismatches by making a clear plan and having clear ideas about what you want. By identifying your interests, strengths, and passions, you can identify the right field for you. If you set goals and understand how you'll reach them, find something you love, and find the balance between work and play, you'll reach an unprecedented level of happiness. Develop a career development plan to set you on the path to success. It's possible.

A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR 2022 …. I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST.

Style Talk : A signature look is the finishing touch.

  When you're trying to live up to the idea of the style of someone else, it can be difficult. Finishing touches are what make a style personal. The perfect finishing touch for a sophisticated, well-heeled wardrobe, but at the same time, the ideal starting point for a style journey. Whether you are a complete beginner or a seasoned curator, these tips will teach you how to design, create, and refine your signature look. Even if you admire a designer's style, the trick lies in what you can take from that design that you admire. Mix and match what you want to fit your style. If possible, keep it simple.